“What is the use of wanting in vain and forever?” The poet exclaimed sadly. But why in vain? Desires may well be fulfilled, and, contrary to popular belief, sometimes titanic efforts are not necessary for this.
Understand what the soul desires
How often do people complain that their desires are not being fulfilled, but do not think about the fact that in fact … they do not want it. Indeed, it seems that it is believed that it is good to be rich and healthy, but there are so many poor and sick in the world. In fact, wealth, in addition to opportunities, imposes a tremendous responsibility on a person, for which not everyone is ready. And the majority chooses a modest life in which it is necessary to be responsible only for themselves and their loved ones, leaving the millionaires to decide the fate of millions of people. And the disease, however strange it may seem, often turns out to be a very profitable way to attract attention to yourself, to get some kind of benefit. So it turns out that everything that happens to a person is ultimately his choice.
And how often do people try to realize the desires that their parents instilled in them (“I really want my son to get a higher education!”), Friends and acquaintances (“Everyone should visit Egypt at least once!”), Loved ones (“My husband will appreciate that I am an ideal hostess! ). It is not surprising that such desires often remain unfulfilled. Only what a person wants for himself is fulfilled.
Believe in a dream
But even if a person knows exactly what he wants, he often does not believe that this is possible. And, starting to desire something, he stops himself: “This is unreal! It can never come true! And thus he builds an insurmountable obstacle to the realization of his desires.
Only by believing in the very possibility of realizing what was conceived, believing sincerely and unconditionally, a person takes the first step towards realizing his dream.
Formulate correctly
The next step towards the fulfillment of any desire is its correct formulation. How often people who have incorrectly formulated their needs are disappointed when they receive something completely different from what they dreamed for themselves. So, inadvertently wishing “to take a break from any work and so that everyone around would take care”, it is easy to end up in a hospital bed, and having dreamed about the opportunity to dispose of huge sums of money, get only a modest position of a bank clerk.
To prevent this from happening, you must follow the rules for the correct formulation of desires:
The wording should be positive (no “not” particle). The universe “does not hear” it and gives exactly what a person wanted to avoid. So instead of phrasing “I don’t want to be lonely” it’s better to say “I will cut off my relationship with my only loved one”.
It is necessary to formulate the desire clearly and specifically. So, wishing to "become thin", you can get not the desired harmony, but exhaustion from stress or illness, or even become for someone bad, bad. Better to articulate clearly and specifically: "By May next year, I weigh 10 kg less and I feel great at the same time!"
The desire should be expressed as if it has already come true. If you say to yourself, "I'm going to go to the sea," you can get ready for the rest of your life, but you won't get to the sea. Another thing is "I am resting at the sea in August this year!"
Visualization
Visualization is another powerful tool for fulfilling a desire that comes into play after it has been formulated. The essence of visualization is to imagine that the desire has already been fulfilled and to see yourself at the moment of triumph. It is believed that the more detailed and more detailed a person imagines the results of the fulfillment of a desire, the more often he does it, the more chances that the dream will come true.
A little trick of visualization is that you should not look at these beautiful pictures from the outside, looking at yourself, as if at a movie hero on the screen, but “from the inside”, as in reality, when you cannot see yourself from the outside (well, perhaps in the mirror) …
Don't miss the chance
Having worked in this way with your desire, now it remains only to carefully monitor what is happening so as not to miss a suitable chance for its fulfillment, which fate will certainly provide. And here it is important to recognize this lucky chance, to seize it and not to miss it, doing everything possible in the prevailing favorable circumstances. And then the desire will certainly come true!
