Argentine tango is one of the most gender-specific dances. It assumes a clear separation of the female and male roles, moreover, in the technique itself, the foundations of the behavior of each partner are laid. Of course, people begin to study dance at an already mature age, when their opinion about gender differences is already clearly formed. Nevertheless, their views have to be slightly corrected. Interestingly, this not only helps to better dance, but also makes everyday life more comfortable and enjoyable.
A man in Argentine tango always leads. It is he who takes responsibility for the couple. If in a dance a woman touches other dancers or bumps into an object, the man will be blamed for this incident. This is not easy, because not every modern representative of the stronger sex is ready to easily solve such problems. However, Argentine tango helps to develop both self-confidence and responsibility and willingness to help a woman.
It is important to understand that for this dance, a tough attitude towards a partner on the part of a man is unacceptable. No dictatorship, no excessive control, or even more subordination. The task of Argentine tango teachers is to teach men to listen to their partner, determine her level of skill and even personality traits, in order to decide whether the dance will be fast or slow, passionate or gentle. It is very important that dancers can guess the desires of their partners and know how to correctly lead them in the dance.
There is also another extreme. Alas, often men turn out to be too insecure or obsessed with their own person, inattentive to a woman. This is also unacceptable. An Argentine tango dancer must certainly be reliable, attentive. It is important that he be able to instill confidence in his partner. The more a woman trusts a man in dance, the easier it is for them to establish contact. The dancer must know for sure that the partner will lead her correctly, support her when performing complex figures, help maintain balance, and provide her with comfort in the dance.
Unfortunately, both tyranny and inattention, many women forgive men in everyday life, not paying much attention to such shortcomings. In Argentine tango, this is unacceptable. But do not worry: this dance is good because it not only shows the problem, exacerbates it, makes it as noticeable as possible, but also shows ways to solve it and even helps to make some favorable changes in everyday life.
Thanks to Argentine tango, the dancer becomes more attentive to others and especially to his partner, gains calm and unshakable self-confidence, learns to take responsibility. Moreover, after attending trainings, men, as a rule, begin to better understand how to inspire confidence in a woman, even at the stage of acquaintance. They learn to approach even the most attractive girls, who usually instill fear in other men, and invite them to dance.
