If you dream of becoming the soul of the company, remember that the secret lies, first of all, in your personal charm. Your task is to make everyone around him notice and appreciate.
In fact, being the soul of the company is very simple - for this you first need to relax, and in the literal sense. When you go to a party or to visit, set a goal for yourself to relax in the best sense of the word. It is better to leave all your problems at work, only in this case you can feel the general mood and join the general fun. If you sit with a sad look and think about your own unsolved problems, communication with friends is unlikely to be easy. If you have any hidden talents, try to share them with others - this will help you truly become the life of the company. The ability to play the guitar well, make fun of jokes and tell funny anecdotes, knowledge of a huge number of original and unconventional toasts will surely raise your rating at any party. But remember that you need to be able to tell jokes - and if you doubt your abilities, it is better to practice at home or with a narrow circle of friends whom you are not shy about. Any anecdote should always come in handy - an untimely joke is often perceived as a sign of bad taste. But if you know how to do something well - do not hesitate to demonstrate your talent. Tune in to a cheerful mood and try to forget that you have any complexes. You should not sit in splendid isolation - communicate with people, learn to find a common language with them and maintain a conversation on a variety of topics. By following these simple recommendations, sooner or later you will be able to feel "at ease" even in the company of unfamiliar people, and learn to find a common language with any person.
