Tatyana Ustinova did not marry for love, but because of resentment against her former lover. As a result, such a strange marriage turned out to be happy and has been going on for several decades.
The love story of the writer Tatyana Ustinova turned out to be very unusual. Still a very young girl married a modest guy Zhenya to spite her lover who had abandoned her. As a result, an accidental marriage resulted in a long, happy marriage. Tatiana and Eugene live together to this day.
And nobody needs it for nothing
Today Tatyana does not hide that in her youth she was not popular among young people. The girl always had problems with being overweight, she wore glasses and was extremely insecure. In her student years, the future writer met a real handsome man. The young man was not only good-looking, but also knew how to please the young ladies: he recited popular poems by heart and smiled white-toothed. Ustinova herself began to look after the guy she liked. True, such a romance did not last long. Soon the young man left the "crumpet" in love with him, and even laughed at the girl. Handsome said that Tatiana, even for nothing, is not needed by anyone and will never marry. Ustinova harbored a strong resentment in her soul and began to look for a suitable candidate for a wife in order to prove to her lover that she was in fact in demand and popular.
At one of the noisy student parties, Tanya noticed a modest and unremarkable guy. The young physicist Zhenya did not have fun like everyone else, but quietly sat on the sidelines and looked around. At the very end of the evening, the young man suddenly grew bolder and volunteered to accompany Ustinova home. On the same evening, Eugene jokingly made a marriage proposal to his companion. And the girl agreed, even despite the fact that she did not like the guy at all, either internally or by communication.
The beginning of family life
As a result, the common joke ended in a wedding. The celebration turned out to be modest, student. After the celebration, the newly-made spouses took close friends and went on their honeymoon to Evgeny's homeland. Even then, Tatyana reproached herself for an impulsive decision and dreamed only of returning home already in the status of a widow. Fortunately, things turned out completely differently.
Soon, the crisis that broke out in the country hit hard on the budget of the Ustinova family. Both spouses lost their jobs and tried to get out of the financial hole in any way. Tatyana recalls that at that time they even resold cigarettes near the metro. It was during the most difficult period that Ustinova learned about her first pregnancy. The months of waiting for Misha's son became unbearable for her. The girl was constantly tormented by toxicosis, she lay in bed for days and thought how to earn money for a stroller, clothes and other necessary things for the baby. At the same time, the husband did not support Ustinova at all, but calmly went about his business.
After the birth of Mikhail, the future writer completely fell into a serious depression. Eugene took over all the worries about the baby, but psychologically he still did not support his spouse. Ustinova managed to cope with the piled-up problems on her own.
Soon Tatyana learned about the second pregnancy. It turned out to be unplanned. Despite the fears of the young mother, the second pregnancy was given to her much easier. Soon the relationship between the spouses improved. Ustinova stopped avoiding her husband and even considered him a very interesting man. During that period, the girl began to carefully monitor the wardrobe of her second half, select outfits that emphasize his dignity, and, in general, devote more time to her husband.
Popularity test
The family overcame the main financial crisis, the children grew up, and Tatiana went to work. But money in their family was still not found. Ustinova, one after another, changed positions in the television and journalistic sphere. In parallel, the woman constantly wrote various short works. More often - of a detective nature. They all went to the table. At the age of 32, Tatyana was suddenly laid off at work. Then her husband suggested that she try to publish her own numerous manuscripts.
Together, the couple chose a publishing house at random, where the writer took her novel. It was printed literally right away. After that, Ustinova's life changed dramatically. Tatiana felt extremely happy and decided to continue developing in the writing field. Every year the woman became more and more popular, and Eugene could not come to terms with the fact that his wife was more successful than him. His dissatisfaction with his own career achievements resulted in constant nagging towards his soul mate. A period of protracted quarrels and conflicts began in the family.
Tatyana did not last long with her husband, who suddenly became obese and completely unbearable, and offered to leave. The couple reconnected only when, a few months later, Ustinova learned about the interest in Eugene from the young graduate student. The writer admitted all her mistakes, lost weight, changed her image and began to devote much more time to her family. To this day, the couple live together.
