Many people know that there is a so-called language of flowers, but few use it - maybe in vain? Any gift should have a certain meaning, and a lot can be expressed with the help of the right colors.
For the language of flowers, you need to thank the King of Sweden Charles XII - he learned about it in Turkey, and successfully turned it into a special secret code, which, with his blessing, began to be used for romantic communication. Now flirting courtiers could exchange live letters in the form of bouquets, revealing their feelings to each other.
Today we rather intuitively choose flowers for different people, but if we think about it, we will see that we are still adopting a lot of the "language of flowers". In addition, ciphers from Charles XII have become an integral part of etiquette, the rules of which many understand. For example, everyone will distinguish a bouquet for a declaration of love from a bouquet that will simply become a sign of attention to a person.
Florists say that a bouquet can say a lot not only about feelings, but also about the level of culture of the person who chose it. Let's try to read the "language of flowers" so as not to be mistaken with a gift.
First, about the colors:
- White. If in doubt about the choice of color - stop at the classic white, it is suitable for any occasion;
- Red symbolizes activity, freedom and life itself, so it is important not to overdo it with it. Although red and burgundy roses are used in bouquets for official ceremonies, they should not dominate the bouquet;
- Scarlet is a symbol of love and passion, especially if it is scarlet roses;
- Pink is a symbol of modesty and youth, tender feelings - this is a direct declaration of love;
- Orange is a universal color, it suits everyone and is appropriate in any situation. It symbolizes warmth, kindness, sunshine;
- Yellow is a controversial color and can symbolize separation and sadness or lasting friendship. Florists are inclined to believe that such a light sunny color cannot speak of the negative;
What flowers say:
Asters. They are given to those who want to be torn away from the earthly, taken away from pragmatism and show that in addition to the material there is also the spiritual world - the world of intuition, faith and higher spheres.
Cornflowers. This is a symbol of loyalty, constancy and hope for the continuation of the relationship.
Red carnations are the so-called "memorial flowers", which are most often used for laying on monuments or for gifts to veterans. However, white and soft pink carnations can be presented to a woman with whom you have friendly relations without a hint of romance.
Gerberas are versatile. They will say about a positive mood, that we wish a person a good mood. However, if these are a woman's favorite flowers, then gerberas will become a sign of an attentive attitude and romantic feelings, and a woman will appreciate it.
Gladioli symbolize reliability and loyalty to the word, constancy of feelings and seriousness of intentions. They can be classified as "business" colors, because often gladioli are given to teachers, elders, etc.
Cacti are rarely given, but if you want to say that you are persistent and will not stop at any obstacles in winning the hand and heart of your beloved, then this is what you need. In addition, the flower lives for a long time and will constantly remind you of you.
Water lilies in ancient times were called "mermaid flowers". They say that a man is crazy about his chosen one and is unable to rival her charms.
Lilies of the valley speak of passion - it is as strong as the scent of these flowers.
White lilies indicate that a man admires his chosen one - this is a symbol of pride and nobility. Orange lilies can indicate resentment or cooling feelings.
Mimosas symbolize love and care. They can be presented to a grandmother, daughter, wife, mother - and they will all understand that a man loves, cares and appreciates everything they do for him.
Narcissus is a special flower, if the legends are to be believed. With the help of a bouquet of daffodils, you can emphasize your unique qualities, as well as say about the uniqueness and originality of the person to whom you are giving these flowers.
Peonies with all their appearance carry a huge charge of positive energy. These flowers symbolize excellent prospects in the future, happiness, joy and striving for the goal - it is not for nothing that they are often presented for a wedding.
Roses are versatile and unique at the same time. Flowers of different shades will say completely different things: pink can be presented as a declaration of love, white - as a symbol of purity and innocence, red will tell about passion. Using these symbols, you will always hit the target.
Chamomiles can be presented to a young romantic person - after all, they are so similar to her. Large flowers are suitable for a young lady of Balzac's age, because they are still chamomile, which means they are a hint of youth.
Lilacs of any color are a symbol of love. She stands in the bouquet for a long time, so the man hints that he will love his chosen one forever and wants her to remember him as long as possible.
Tulips are neutral flowers for a friendly bouquet for both men and women.
Violets are well suited for a young girl, inexperienced in love affairs. They talk about friendship and devotion and that there is a great future and a lot of happiness ahead of her.
Freesias will say about trust in the one who will receive this bouquet from you.
Chrysanthemums are a symbol of wisdom, intelligence and solidity. These flowers are for a gift to those with whom you are in a serious relationship. Chrysanthemums can also be considered "business", because they can be gifted to your boss, teacher or mother-in-law.
The language of flowers can be used not only for messages, but also in order to respond to a "living letter". For example, if you received a dried bouquet, it means that the feelings have disappeared. A man can also send a dry flower to his girlfriend instead of a living bouquet as a symbol of a departed love.
