Recognition, participation, empathy are the main reasons for looking for a second half. The support of a loving person helps out in times of failure, adjusts to new feats and achievements. But what if getting the attention of a potential partner becomes a feat in itself?
Instructions
Step 1
Luck, contrary to popular belief, doesn't just come. First, believe in it. Even if you have listened to a refusal a thousand times, the thousand and one can be your finest hour. It's a shame if you miss it in despair. Set yourself up for victory, think of success as a fait accompli. Think of all the times when you achieved something through persistence or other virtue. Use them in the future.
Step 2
Don't dwell on one member of the opposite sex. Test your strength on several, communicate. Do not try to immediately impose a romantic relationship, first, establish friendly contact, flirt a little. Observe the reaction of others to one or another of your actions, but do not give in to embarrassment or embarrassment if the reaction is unexpected or unpleasant for you. Behave like a scientist who first encountered a phenomenon.
Step 3
Watch your appearance. It is impossible to be the ideal of beauty for everyone, but the general rules of neatness and hygiene are clear to most: well-groomed nails, albeit not long, but clean, combed hair, neat clothes. You don't have to look expensive and rich. Elementary neatness is enough.
Step 4
Use humor. It's hard to find a joke that everyone will understand, so think twice before telling something. If your sympathy does not know the context of the situation you are describing, at best she will smile politely. Immediately exclude defects in appearance and physical disabilities from the area of funny, especially if your partner is ashamed of them.
Step 5
Don't be overwhelmed by intellect. If you decide to share your favorite music, and your partner does not appreciate it, do not convince him of the lack of taste and hearing. It has a taste, but it is different from yours. Ask about his preferences. Nothing gives a person such pleasure as telling about himself for the one who listens to him. By showing interest in your sympathy, you will evoke curiosity in return, the desire to spend more time together.
